RECOGNIZING SEXUAL ABUSE

Child sexual abuse involves the coercion of a dependent, developmentally immature person to commit a sexual act with someone older. For example, an adult may sexually abuse a child or adolescent, or an older child or adolescent may abuse a younger child. A perpetrator does not have to be an adult in order to sexually abuse a child (RAINN, 2021).

The fact that sexual abuse may be carried out by a family member or friend further increases the child’s reluctance to disclose the abuse, as does shame and guilt plus the fear of not being believed. The child may fear being hurt or even killed for telling the truth and may keep the abuse secret rather than risk the consequences of disclosure. Very young children may not have sufficient language skills or vocabulary to describe what happened (Clermont County CPS, 2021; RAINN, 2021).

Child sexual abuse is found in every race, culture, and class throughout society. Girls are sexually abused more often than boys; however, this may be due to boys’—and later, men’s—tendency not to report their victimization.

Most perpetrators of child sexual abuse are people who are known to the victim. As many as 93% of children who are sexually abused under the age of 18 know the abuser. There is no particular profile of a child molester or of the typical victim. Even someone highly respected in the community—the parish priest, a teacher, or coach—may be guilty of child sexual abuse. Anyone, including parents, can be a perpetrator, and most are male.

Negative effects of sexual abuse vary from person to person and range from mild to severe in both the short and long term. Victims may exhibit anxiety, difficulty concentrating, and depression. They may develop eating disorders, self-injury behaviors, substance abuse, or suicide. The effects of childhood sexual abuse often persist into adulthood (Clermont County CPS, 2021; RAINN, 2021).

Physical Indicators of Sexual Abuse

Physical evidence of sexual abuse may not be present or may be overlooked. Victims of child sexual abuse are seldom injured due to the nature of the acts. Most perpetrators of child sexual abuse go to great lengths to “groom” the children by rewarding them with gifts and attention and try to avoid causing them pain in order to ensure that the relationship will continue.

If physical indicators occur, they may include:

• Symptoms of sexually transmitted diseases, including oral infections, especially in preteens
• Difficulty in walking or sitting
• Torn, stained, or bloody underwear
• Pain, itching, bruising, or bleeding in the genital or anal area
• Bruises to the hard or soft palate
• Pregnancy, especially in early adolescence
• Painful discharge of urine and/or repeated urinary infections
• Foreign bodies in the vagina or rectum
• Painful bowel movements
  (Clermont County CPS, 2021; RAINN, 2021)

Behavioral Indicators of Sexual Abuse

Children’s behavioral indicators of child sexual abuse include:

• Unwillingness to change clothes for or participate in physical education activities
• Withdrawal, fantasy, or regressive behavior, such as returning to bedwetting or thumb-sucking
• Inappropriate, bizarre, suggestive, or promiscuous sexual behavior
• Inappropriate sexual knowledge for age
• Verbal disclosure of sexual assault
• Involvement in commercial sexual exploitation
• Forcing sexual acts on other children
• Extreme fear of closeness or physical examination
• Suicide attempts or other self-injurious behaviors
• Layered or inappropriate clothing
• Hiding clothing
• Lack of interest or involvement in activities
  (Clermont County CPS, 2021; RAINN, 2021)